To celebrate all the wonderful, wacky and weirdness of love we have our ''Grab a paraphilia and some bishies and run with it'' challenge.

Any bishie is up for grabs, any kink is up for grabs, the more of either or both the better. We`ll except fanart, photomanips, poems, ficlets, fics, rps, round robins just make sure you mention which kinks you have choosen and which bishies.

You can download the list as a txt file here, or in the channel from me.

Paraphilias in a relationship should always be approached in a safe sane and consensual way but since we`re talking fiction that becomes less of a requirement.

This is not a complete list and in no way covers all aspects of the listed kinks. Several were left off deliberatly and in no way do inclusions and or exclusions imply our condemnation or our approval.

If you`re writing a story that pushes the boundries of what would be healthy in a real relationship that`s alright. if you have another fetish not listed please feel free to use it as long as it does not deal with either child or animal abuse and you have a warning. please also note we reserve the right to remove anything without explanation

The list
note: in all cases these are extreme turn ons, instead of just things that one likes.


Ablutophilia - Baths or showers
Acomoclitic - Hairless genitals (see gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Acrophilia - High places
Acrotomophilia - Amputee partner
Acousticophilia - Aroused by sounds
Actirasty - Exposure to the sun's rays
Agalmatophilia/Pygmalionism - Statues/manikins or immobility
Agonophilia - Pseudo-rape, pretend struggle or wrestling play as a form of foreplay
Agoraphilia - Sex in public places
Agrexophilia - Excitement from knowing that others are aware of a persons sexual activities
Algolagnia/Algalagnia - Love of pain
Allorgasmia - Fantasizing about someone other than one's partner
Allotriorasty - Partners of other nations or races
Alphmegamia - Older men
Altocalciphilia - High heels (see retifism)
Alvinolagnia - Stomachs (see partialism)
Amaurophilia - Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner
Anaclitism - Activities or items one was exposed to as an infant
Anasteemaphilia - Taller or shorter partners
Androidism - Robots with human features
Anophelorastia - Defiling or ravaging a partner
Antholagnia - Floral scent
Aphephilia - Being touched
Apotemnophilia - self-amputee
Arachnephilia - Spiders
Asphyxiophilia - Self-strangulation
Asthenolagnia - Weakness/being humiliated
Audiophilia - Recorded sound
Autagonistophilia - Exposing naked body or genitals to strangers while on stage, while being photographed
Autoassassinophilia - Staging one's own murder
Autonephioplia - Diapers


Belonephilia - Pins/needles/sharp objects
Biastophilia - Violently raping their victims


Choreophilia - Dancing to orgasmic release
Chrematistophilia - Having to pay for sex or having a sex partner steal from them, being robbed
Chrysophilia - Gold or gold colored objects (see timophilia)
Claustrophilia - Being confined in a small space
Coprolalia - Using obscene language or writing
Coulrophilia - Clowns
Crurophilia - Legs
Crush fetishism - Seeing small creatures being crushed or being crushed


Dacryphilia - Seeing their partner cry
Dendrophilia - Trees or fertility worship of them
Doraphilia - Skin, animal fur, or leather (see hyphephilia)
Dracophilia - Dragons and serpents
Dysmorphophilia - Deformed or physically impaired partners (see teratophilia)


Ecouteurism - Listening to others having sex without permission
Electrophilia - Electricity
Endytophilia - Partners who are clothed
Erotographomania - Writing love poems or letters
Erotophonophilia - Lust murder
Exhibitionism - Showing genitals in public


Fetishism - An inanimate object
Fisting - pretty easy to figure out
Formicophilia - Sex play with ants
Frotteurism - Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person


Gerontophilia - Partner whose age is that of different generation
Gynelophilous - Sight/touch of pubic hair (see acomoclitic, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Gymnophilia - Nudity
Gynemimetophilia - Male impersonating a female


Haematomania/Hematolagnia - Blood
Hamartophilia - Committing acts you consider to be sinful
Haptephilia - Becoming extremely aroused by being touched
Harmatophilia - Sexual incompetence/mistakes
Harpaxophilia - Being robbed or burglarized (see chrematistophilia)
Hierophilia - Sacred objects
Hirsutophilia - Armpit hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Hodophilia - Traveling
Homilophilia - Hearing or giving sermons
Hybristophilia - People who have committed crimes, people who are cruel/outrageous
Hygrophilia - Body fluids or moisture
Hyphephilia - Touching skin, hair, leather, fur, or fabric/specific fabric (see acomoclitic, doraphilia,gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Hypoxyphilia - Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen


Kainotophilia - Change
Kakorrhaphiphilia - Failure
Keraunophilia - Thunder and/or lightning
Kinesophilia - Exercise
Kleptophilia - Stealing
Klismaphilia - Being given an enema
Knismolagnia - Being tickled
Knissophilia - Incense
Kopophilia - Exhaustion


Macrogenitalism - Large genitals
Macrophilia - Giants
Masochism - Being dominated/humiliated
Mastigophilia - Punishment
Megalophilia - Large objects
Merinthophilia - Being bound
Metophilia - Another person's face
Metrophilia - Poetry
Mysophilia - Filth/foul odors/decaying material


Narratophilia - Discussing sex with others
Nasophilia - Noses/nose (see partialism)
Neophilia - Anything new
Normophilia - Acts considered normal by their religion/society
Nyctophilia - Darkness or night


Ochlophilia - Being in a crowd
Oculophilia - Eyes (see partialism)
Oculolinctus - Licking their partner's eyeball
Odaxelagnia - Biting/being bitten
Odontophilia - Tooth extractions/tooth fetish
Ophidicism - Reptiles
Ozolagnia - Powerful scents


Parthenophilia - Sex with virgins
Partialism - Specific parts of the body(see alvinolagnia, nasophilia, oculophilia, podophilia)
Pecattiphilia - Sinning/guilt
Pediophilia - Dolls
Phallophilia - Large penis/large penis fetish
Phobophilia - Fear/hate
Phygephilia - Being a fugitive
Pictophilia - Inability to become aroused without pictorial pornography
Plushophilia - Stuffed toys
Podophilia - Feet (see partialism)
Polyiterophilia - Sex with a series of partners
Psychrocism - Cold/ice
Pubephilia - Pubic hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, trichophilia)
Pygmalionis - Rubbing one's body against a statue/statue/manikins
Pygophilia - Contact with the buttocks
Pyrolagnia - Watching fire
Pyrophilia - Fire or its uses in sex play


Retifism - Shoes (see altocalciphilia)
Rhabdophilia - Being flagellated
Robotism - Robots in sex play


Sadism - Dominating/mistreating/humiliating one's partner
Salirophilia - Ingesting human sweat or saliva (fluids with a salt content)
Scatophilia - Obscene phone calls
Scopophilia - Being stared at oneself
Siderodromophilia - Trains
Sitophilia - Using food
Somnophilia - Fondling a stranger in their sleep
Spectrophilia - An image in an mirrors/sex with spirits
Stigmatophilia - Marking one's own body/inserting foreign objects into it
Symphorophilia - Arranging a crash/disaster/explosion


Tantalolagnia - Teasing
Taphephilia - Being buried alive
Teratophilia - Deformed or monstrous people (see dysmorphophilia)
Thesauromania - Collecting women's clothing
Thlipsosis - Pinching
Timophilia - Gold or wealth (see chrysophilia)
Transformation fetish - Depictions of transformations of people into objects/other beings
Trichophilia - Hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia,)
Triolism - Three-party sex
Troilism - Couples
Tripsolagnophilia - Massage


Urtication - Stinging nettles stimulating the skin


Vaccinophilia - Being vaccinated
Vicarphilia - Hearing stories about other people's lives
Vincilagnia - Being tied up
Vorarephilia - Fantasies about being swallowed alive
Voyeurism - Watching others have sex


Xenophilia - Strangers


Zelophilia - Jealousy
Zwischenstufe - Person of the same sex